Why Make a Fuss?

One of my favorite people to visit is Orchid Huff.  She is 94 years old, sharp as a tack and funny.  Also, whenever I see her I either find myself laughing or learning something.  She has a lot of experience and wisdom to share. 

So, when I came to visit her, she is always peaceful.  And I do not really remember what we are talking about because we just talk about anything and everything.  But the words she said hung in my brain for a while. That sentence is “Why make a fuss.”  She reiterated that there are some things in this world that you can make a fuss about, but you really have to think about priorities, situations, circumstances, and other people.  You must ask yourself, “why make a fuss?”

It's a simple question or sentence.  Often a statement we rarely ask because we often forget about it.  But this statement will stop you in your tracks, teaches you patience, and contemplative thought.  Ask yourself is it worth making a fuss about it? 

Life is precious and we only have this one chance at it.  We have to make good decisions and fight the right battles.  In the world right now, we have too many people wanting to make a fuss.  We have too many people that feel that they deserve more.  We have too many people who are just looking for a fight.  And we do not have enough people asking themselves, “Is it worth causing a fuss about it?”

You do not have to fight over everything in life.  Sometimes it is acceptable to let things go and save yourself the trouble you will have to go through.  Be wise and patient.  

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